Amen brother! Jeepers but work folks can drive one absolutely barmy sometimes.
Glad to read that you also avoid drinking when emotional. One of my friends was quite surprised when I shared that I didn't drink for about 3 months after my grandfather passed, as in his family it would have been completely understandable to get wiped every day.
Yeah. I don't think that this would be a good idea.
Does a person actually really grieve in that time?