On Loving and Being Worthy

in Reflections21 days ago

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Just because you're difficult to love doesn't mean you're not worth it.

Have a wonderful day ahead.

Your mother never warned you about the kind of girl I am. She might have told you to stay away from the girl with a beguiling smile and a heart made for breaking. The kind of girl who draws people in with charm and leaves them shattered without a second thought. But that isn’t me. I’m the one your mother forgot to mention—the girl who isn’t easy to love. My edges are rough, my scars run deep, and my heart is stitched together with the remnants of too many battles. I won’t dazzle you with perfection or make love feel effortless. I’ll frustrate you, challenge you, and sometimes push you away. But if you stay, you’ll find a love worth every ounce of your effort, one that is real, raw, and unwavering.

There won’t be fireworks with me—not the fleeting, dazzling kind that fades as quickly as they ignite. I’m a slow burn, a steady flame that takes time to reveal its warmth. I’ll share with you quiet nights beneath the stars, but also turbulent days when my fears and flaws take center stage. I’ll need you to anchor me when the tides rise, not to rescue me, but to hold my hand so I don’t drift too far. I’ll show you the world through my eyes, pointing out beauty in places you’ve overlooked, teaching you to see art in chaos. But there will be days when I’ll need you to remind me of my worth, to tell me I’m beautiful even when I can’t see it myself.

I don’t need grand gestures or promises of stars and moons. I need you here, beside me, as we marvel at the light that already surrounds us. I don’t want love confined behind glass, preserved and untouched. I want a love that is messy and alive, one we build together with steady hands and open hearts. It won’t always be easy—I’ll make mistakes, and so will you. But the most beautiful things in life are the ones we tend to, the ones we fight for. Ours will be a love of resilience, of choosing each other even on the hardest days, of growing not just together but because of each other.

And when you fall in love with me, it won’t be because I’m easy to love. It will be because you see the beauty in my brokenness, the quiet strength that keeps me standing even when my knees quake. You’ll love me not for my perfection, but for my survival, for the way I rise again and again. And maybe your mother never warned you about me because she knew you didn’t need the warning. She knew you’d discover for yourself that the most profound loves aren’t the easiest. They’re the ones that demand patience, courage, and vulnerability. The ones that teach you the true meaning of love—not as something to win, but as something to grow, nurture, and hold close, one deliberate moment at a time.

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Welcome to my blog. I'm just a simple staff in the service industry, currently doing the things that my inner child wants in life. Mostly self-taught in the things that gave me the purpose to learn more about the digital world that led me to this awesome community.

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What kind of girl are you hahaha funny you 😂

Someone worth loving and so are you. 😘

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