My last first time: someone needed help, but a kind of help that I wouldn't have given before, but that person inspired me to do it, gave me confidence and security.
He didn't expect what I did, but it was a health issue, and it was necessary to act fast. I know that I value him very much and I am very satisfied with what I did.... for the first time.
Seems like a good thing.
It has been, for him and for me.