Hi Joe, I hope you're having a nice week.
There's merit in looking at oneself because it's a way to understand what is being done well and building on it or what isn't done well and is an opportunity for development, but being very self-critical can be destructive and I'm glad you've seen that and are looking for ways to work around it.
I love LeAnn Rimes and saw her in concert once. She's not a dynamic performer jumping all over the stage like Pink is for instance, but it was an amazing concert in it's own way. I'd go again.
Becca 🌷