I've been trying to do a better job of being an active listener. I am pretty horrible at it. I struggle with small talk so much, that I feel I need to think ahead about what to say next. That leads me to missing most of the conversation. It also leaves me feeling like anything I talk about is just all about me. It's a slow process, but I think I am getting better.
Do you find it the same with everyone, or are there some people who give you the space to consider what is said before you answer?
Funny you should ask that because I do feel like everyone could work a little harder at active listening. There are some occasions where I don't say a single word. Just smile and nod because they never stop talking.