I think a lot of us get hung up on things being fair. I have been there myself. I probably still go there from time to time. I think ultimately, some things you just need to let go and the ability to do that is where the growth happens. The universe is just trying to find equilibrium. It's not for or against anything.
And it always finds it, or always has it. We just expect that our lives are meant to be equal also. That isn't going to happen.