I still have to get some mate, I'll do it though, and do a post on it.
We are all different types and respond to different things I guess, but for me *ownership, responsibility and discipline work best. I don't relate well to people who don't apply those things either, probably because I expect it of myself and that pushes outwards to others.
I will wait for the publication about the mate!
It is true that when we relate to people who do not apply those principles it becomes complicated because they follow different paths, different results are reached.