I'm not gonna ask :P It's unfortunately a family member, so not easy to cut out (otherwise yeah, hands down).
When someone is unwilling to change or heal, their struggle to win you over to their self-destructive point of view is their greatest pleasure.
Damn that hit the nail on the head. I might try your approach in future, as I have a hunch this isn't just gonna go away. Many thanks, kind sir. :)