Which is, I guess, what your twenties are for, ideally.
Bingo.
Which isn't to say I don't relate to everything you just said 1000%, by the way. I think (I hope) our 20s are, if done right, a place where we figure ourselves out, our personality, our wants, get our head on straight as it were, so that the choice becomes more obvious. I hope so at least.
Meanwhile, while you figure yourself out, that castle sure don't look bad :D
Another part I am about to figure out, is how to get and stay in one of these😁
I do hope so to, that the choices get clearer, not even easier, maybe just more focused. So far it keeps me excited to see where this is going...
Btw. that podcast was really good, you did recommend the other day. I enjoyed it! let me know if you have any other recommendations!! Did you read the book they talk about?
Oh and about the 20s, I read "The defining decade" recently, and I guess you could enjoy it as much as I did, which was a lot, really opening up my mind to a lot of interesting approaches on... growth I guess:)