It is so important to close the heart for repairs ❤️🩹
Why?
Love is not a matter of words, promises or ideas, it is really the action that makes it false or true.
Love needs action. In fact, when we only talk about love, and express love, without actions, it is definitely a story, a handjob, pure gamelot.
Love is expressed in actions and those actions have to do, generally, with acts linked to love, also to understanding, to understanding, to communication, to respect.
In my analogy of love, I can tell you that it is like a garden. It is demonstrated in actions, deeds, gestures, solidarity, empathy....love when it is only said or written, perhaps it makes us feel good, but they are only moments, on the other hand when love becomes actions, it is incredible, it is taken care of, fertilized, watered, the bad boil is removed so that it grows solid, leafy, even with thorns in the rose bushes it becomes vigorous and fragrant.
And although we often like to hear words, expressions related to love, or are necessary, poems are worthless without actions.
Many of these actions have to do with giving in, with taking a step back, with humility, with lowering the Ego, with assuming positions that sometimes we would not like. It is to always give and receive with reciprocity.
When we speak from love, we either just say nice words, or we say I love you! But our actions do not correspond to these two words, we are simply being hypocritical, we are deceiving, because we are not genuinely true and committed. We are rather selfish, with false postures, personality, individualistic, for just thinking in a unidirectional way for our own benefit, in our feeling, our pains, shortcomings, and we don't care about the emotions of the other, ninde lonquecel.another lives, thinks, feels, it's like a tale of paths.
I have loved and still do my husband, for 47 years we have built love every day from acts that fill and nourish our relationship as a couple, and ourselves.
Really, if this does not happen in a couple, the time comes to talk about it, to seek professional help, to review the relationship and make it clear whether we are looking at love from the facts that build or we are just empty words, those that are carried away by the wind when they are not sincere.
My mom always told me: "Deeds are loves and not hearts" that is to say: actions say more than a thousand words, my mom was not wrong.
The synonym of Love is to Do, and those are the actions, one of the most forgotten of you. The love of a couple must always be linked to happiness, pleasure, commitment and loyalty. And if not, I think it is sought to solve in couple, but... Otherwise, it's not there!!
The reality is that no relationship is perfect, no person is ideal, in any relationship they can hurt us and we can hurt too.
It's a part of life ⭐️
Janitze.🌷
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
Translation with |DeepL