It's a mistake with our partner.
It is always good to pay attention and avoid making these mistakes when communicating with our partner.
Hiding feelings and keeping what you feel for fear of the other's reaction only creates an emotional distance that can be difficult to close.
Reacting aggressively, responding out of anger or with sarcasm to the concerns of the other, only increases fear and distrust.
Minimizing our partner's feelings or problems can also make us feel misunderstood and belittled.
Sometimes we need to be reminded of things, that although we knew them, it seems that many times we forget them.
Unhappy relationships are usually born from a self-love that does not exist.
Solution? So that they don't hurt us.
Don't hide your feelings. Exercise your freedom with your partner. Express your emotions. Say what you want to say, with your personality, don't shut things up, because, to that same extent, you can get to know your partner and you make your partner get to know you too.
That is the basis of love.
Don't underestimate the power of dialogue and mutual understanding. Every relationship has its challenges, but facing these challenges together, with love and respect, is what really makes a relationship last.
When communication fails, love gets hurt in the couple's love.
Look, trust and communication are two fundamental elements for couples to solve problems.
When an element such as fear is present in a relationship, then we are talking about deeper problems that should not be ignored.
Fear in a relationship can be a red flag.
It may indicate a lack of confidence, self-esteem problems or even fear of rejection. That fear drags us to make mistakes in the relationship, until the rope breaks, often with negative consequences and no way back.
Without a doubt, settling for less speaks of our low self-esteem.
And that is a problem that we must turn into strength to vaccinate against bad loves and learn how to build healthy relationships.
How to do it?
Strengthen yourself from self-love. That will always be the best way to shield ourselves from those who want to offer us crumbs when we are giving everything.
In addition, if we want the relationship to mature, no matter how old we are, we will have to understand that we cannot walk through life without assuming the mistakes and, above all, without the self-reflection that involves apologizing, correcting and amending the path.
Even if there have been losses, pain, abuse, envy, revenge, jealousy.... The skeleton of the couple and the family, is Love ❤️
I insist on repeating this "Love is reciprocity". But how difficult it is to achieve it.
End of the story.
Janitze.🌷❣️
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
Translation with |DeepL
Humans are so good at it. I agree that hiding is not a solution, but communication is. Good to read your post.
Your comment gives me the opportunity to make another post.
Finding solutions is the most sensible thing. Thanks for reading my reflection.
Un gusto leerte amiga bella 😘 tienes razón en todo los que nos dices.
Aunque sepamos que es así, siempre es bueno que alguien nos lo recuerde, que cultivos el amor propio, así como el amor y el respeto con la pareja y los demás.
That's right, my dear @leidimarc, getting away on time is always better, otherwise they don't have the slightest empathy or care about your feeling.
Hugs beautiful friend and thank you very much for reading me and sharing your point of view about my reflection.