It will always be the best decision. When communication fails, love gets hurt.
Who loves does not humiliate, never!!!
But this only works if both (the couple) are rowing in the same direction, if both want to stay together and maintain the relationship, it doesn't work if it's just one person doing all the work, that's why it's called a couple (two).
A momentary pain is better than a lifetime. Walking away hurts, staying even more, if they are making our life in squares.
Walking away is an act of self-love, but it's not always easy to learn how to build the most important relationship with yourself.
I have no doubts...
To love ourselves is not to betray ourselves. Then when we take that step it turns out that we are "the bad guys, and selfish." Those who love us badly will always complain about the limits we set to prevent them from hurting us more. You have to turn your back and keep going. To love oneself is not to eat stories on the way.
Because to love is not to endure, to love is to decide to walk away. And this of what is very valid to apply it for everyone, couple, family, acquaintances.
Personally and from my experience since I started doing it and choosing myself I have been the happiest woman within the possible, no doubt I accept many things, but...! I end up putting the points to the HEIs. I put everyone where they belong.
Love has to do with giving, but it also has to do with receiving, because a love that is not reciprocal, does not serve, a love that is not reciprocal, is not, is a lie.
When that myth that you have to love without looking at who, and you have to love everything that gives, and it doesn't matter if you don't receive, look, leave that for people who have a big heart, my heart is attached to the reality of day to day, and it's the size of what I receive for myself well.
Even money does not save a relationship, because I know a few marriages with money where the latter is not a guarantee of happiness. Ugly things words and actions hurt too much during an argument with our partners, they often leave irreconcilable traces.
It will always be better NOT to forget love in the middle of the argument.
In these cases, the best way to get by saying ugly things is to take a deep breath so that the logic reaches our mouths so as not to damage the relationship anymore.
We, the people who live in terms of romantic relationships, of relationships as a couple, give and we also have to receive. Without a doubt, rejection hurts, discrimination leaves scars, but no insult defines who we are.
I went back to painting, this gives me a lot of calm after the storm.
Janitze 🦋
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Translation with |DeepL