What the future looks like .
If it is difficult for us to change, if it is difficult for us to experiment, if it is difficult for us to do new things, there is fear, there is pessimism. And if there is fear and pessimism, there is most certainly anxiety.
I encourage you to dare, to seek help, not to let irrational fear and pessimistic thoughts paralyze us.
Personally and at my age of more than 59 years I am NOT afraid to dream, I am not afraid to assume life as positive things that can come to me. If it doesn't happen, then it didn't happen, because I continue my life forward and I do it again, I try again, and if the good thing happens, then the joy is greater.
Life doesn't ask us if we are ready for something, it simply tests us.
Without a doubt, I don't know if it's about being very hard, that is, hardening up, but about strengthening ourselves from the resilience that we all need so that we don't get broken by frustration, sadness, and blows, the difficulties that often break us because they come without warning.
That's how I see it, I don't know about running away or avoiding things, problems, difficulties and challenges, but about knowing what to do when they come our way. A co-worker always criticizes me, because in the face of a difficulty or difficult circumstances at work, I always put myself in the worst that can happen. I prepare for the worst, and if it goes well, well, what a success, and nothing happens.
I am a woman who when she wants something, I set myself the goal no matter how difficult it is and I go after it. I think I learned frustration tolerance in my home with my parents.
In fact... You have to get out of the comfort zone.
I am very resilient when I go through something that affects me and hurts me, I learn the lesson immediately and move forward stronger. I overdo the adverse.
Today he faced the problems with a different attitude, I have more resources for whatever comes, and this is called living.
Day by day, I take the reins of my life, so that I am not surprised by the end of existence without having tasted the taste of happiness.
I've always thought that character is forged depending on how you handle those situations that make us hit rock bottom. It is there where there is a before and an after, some stay in the before and others move towards the after. It's that simple!!! And if it feels that we can move forward, we have to seek help, because the reality is that we are not going to be able to change the bad... It already happened, what will you do with that???
Janitze. 🌹
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Translation with |DeepL