I abandoned the need to be right a long time ago. Now I live as I want and according to my reason. Without trying to convince anyone.
Of course it is!!! It was hard for me to do it, but I let go. The ego doing its own thing, made me suffer from this about what I'm writing today.
Losing that weight is the best decision we can make. I think there is nothing better than the example. We all want to reach that level and stop convincing others inspires and motivates us to keep improving. 🙌🏻❤
We really have to try to subtract drama from what is already dramatic by itself. That's what I call faking dementia or playing crazy 😊.
I think that the whole age of the human being is the perfect age to start over, especially if it is to be your best version.
Taking note! 😉
It is an everyday job, until it is achieved. That's the best thing, living with our own reasons. I'm playing crazy. 🤣🤣
It really takes a lot of times to do that, so as not to get hooked up with insubstantial things that add drama to what is already dramatic in itself.
A year ago I had more empathy for others than for myself, I broke into a thousand pieces, which made me not realize things that were happening.
When you are aware of your value, and of your reason, you stop accepting less than you deserve.
You no longer try to fit in places where you are not valued, or insist on retaining people who do not appreciate your company by your side. You recognize that your time and energy are too valuable to invest in people who do not add up to you, that you choose your friendships better, and therefore improve your relationships.
When you are clear about who you are, you learn to surround yourself with people who add to you, drive you, motivate you and do not seek to dull your shine.
It is very simple and straightforward
If someone bothers with my happiness, there's nothing to do, or well, yes, tell those toxic peopleadyyy, if I've seen you I don't remember.
Especially when they open their mouth to try to demotivate someone, I tell them: "Better stay quiet." 🤐
There are also people who do not want to change and all they are looking for is to victimize themselves. That is why it is better to take a distance.
Why?
Because people when they know they did something wrong with you, they go on the defensive and walk away by themselves.
We must work from a young age on the importance of healthy environments and bonds.
I wish you the best in life and that everything goes in favor of all of us what remains in these first days of January 2025
Janitze 🌹
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