Everything you said about the differences in adulting now vs in our parents’ generation rings true to me. I agree that the variety of options and our high expectations of life are strong contributors. Used to be that only “kids” — meaning high school and college aged kids ran around trying things. But now that continues on throughout our adult lives. We don’t want to miss out, or be that bring person who has stopped seeking cultural and creative outlets.
As for feeling connected, I was in a bit of a slump a few years ago, as it seems you might be at the moment. What changed was that my husband and I started doing more purposeful get togethers with friends. Like game nights, and going out to hear local musicians. And we focus on a few small friend groups that always get along well and have a lot of fun. We also travel with friends sometimes, get a cabin for a weekend, etc. it has rejuvenated our social lives!
We don't want to miss out "now" even if it means missing out later.
I think this is a great idea. They do it here, but my family don't have a cabin anymore, so it becomes very expensive. Still, heading out more to listen to a local band is possible - if they still exist.
Oh I certainly hope you have local bands, @tarazkp. The world is ever changing, but the need to make music and entertain persists.
🍷 To your continued health and healing.