A very interesting reflection and many questions of which most know the answers, but only the brave assume their reality. I am glad that your values are so great that you enjoy the privilege of having made good decisions in the past, not everyone is able to develop the security to pursue what they want and many are even affected by external factors, but if you ask yourself that last question, you might discover that being alive and healthy is enough to start again.
There is a lot behind the word “destiny”, but as you say, we have the choice to be passengers in our own lives or take control and make a change. I just know that being happy is the most important thing, even though many have a different meaning for happiness.... I like this very much Galenkp, I send you a sincere hug my brother! ✌️
I'm glad you found something of value and it sounds like you're one who applies such things to your own life. ✅