Finns have a habit of changing their decision if something better comes up
I hate it when people do that. Like when you invite someone to dinner or go somewhere, they're very non committal because they want to see if something better comes up. It's like you become they're second choice, they're only joining you because there's nothing better on 😡
I hate it too. Flakey people annoy me, especially when I have changed my plans to accommodate them.