Oh no, I remember in the past I was in the abusive relationship he always extract money from me, he let me buy him groceries and cook food for him. He was very possessive. When I was at home he even stole my sandal my clothes hanging outside our house. What a pathetic man! The break up was very bad he wouldn't let me go. And I cannot remember how did I get out from that mess. After the break up that is the time that I've found that he was using shabu/drugs. I felt sorry for myself.