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RE: A Shrinking Pool

in Reflections5 months ago

However, spreading a little here and there in unconnected vehicles is unlikely to yield much.

I relate to this a lot. Hence, I am looking for ways not to spread myself too thin all over the multitude of stuff I wish to be able to do and master. Picking and choosing, what I dedicate more of my time and accepting the fact that I will likely not have time to cover all of it in my lifetime.

Is there a difference in your thoughts when reading an article like this, or scrolling five minutes of Instagram?

Of course, there is a difference. But reading in general has not been the easiest for me my whole life. It takes a lot of intense focusing to read and grasp. Sure, I can skim through stuff while my mind is all over my thoughts that never stop, but then I do not grasp what I read. It takes some time to gain some fluidity where what I read takes over my thoughts and makes them stop or go away further in the background.

That said, I think that this struggling could be dealt with by just training my focus a little more.

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Hence, I am looking for ways not to spread myself too thin all over the multitude of stuff I wish to be able to do and master.

Concentration on only a couple will likely lead to fast improvement and more motivation during that time, before moving on. They say "choose the ten things you want to learn, and then cut 7 of them."

That said, I think that this struggling could be dealt with by just training my focus a little more.

Perhaps the cause for it is because you have avoided it in the past?

They say "choose the ten things you want to learn, and then cut 7 of them."

Umm. Yeah. I wish it was as simple. Maybe it is. Currently it is still more like I keep 7 and drop 3 xD. But at least, I am not trying to do all of them at once and failing to do anything at all in the end.

Perhaps the cause for it is because you have avoided it in the past?

It is probably trauma. I think I basically was made to believe I suck at it. Something like that, and I never really pushed myself to improve in that area.