You did the right thing. It makes no difference who has wronged us; we must forgive them whether they realise it or not. This is for our own good. How can we sleep comfortably if we hold grudges and are angry at them?
I learned all of this because many people had hurt me before. Some have come forward to apologise, while others have done nice things for me, without saying sorry but I know what they meant.
What I do know is that people who are unable to forgive others usually have difficulty sleeping at night. This is true since I know someone who has trouble sleeping and occasionally wakes up because they recall their past experiences.
Why is their sleep being interrupted? Because there is no forgiveness and they keep grudges in their hearts for a long time. Saying sorry doesn't mean you are weak, but it's shows that you are more mature to handle things wisely. 🤗
Wow, thank you so much mom. I really needed to hear these words. I was a little under the weather that's why am responding a bit late.
Somewhere in the afternoon, I swallowed my ego and went to apologies to her for overreacting. I really didn't want situation where I'd have to see her and pass by without saying nothing. I just can't tension between me and someone else. I might as well just take the blame even though I know the other person is at fault.
If it means saving the entire ship from confusion and tension, am always ready to. I guess that's why people see me to be weak.😔. But like you said, am able to sleep comfortably without bitterness in my heart.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this out for me. ♥️♥️♥️