Hi, friend. I agree with you👌, I believe that when we choose a home to spend several years of life, it must meet all the conditions.
In my case, I have been looking for a house to move into with my daughters and my husband for approximately a year. And although I enjoy a very spacious and airy one, I think it is still not the one that meets all my requirements.
I'm looking for one in my husband's beautiful hometown (Viñales, Cuba), since he works at night every day and travels 30 km to get home. It should also be located near my little ones' school so that I don't have to make other expenses for their early arrival to school. On the other hand, the real estate must present a design capable of resisting the scourges of the Hurricanes by which my country and especially my province is invaded annually.
So friend, believe me, I am also going through that fun🤪, frustration 🥴or hobby whatever you want to call it. I just try to keep the balance so as not to despair and thus find the perfect option that satisfies my goals.
Greetings and happy weekend.
Hopefully you manage to find the right location and house, especially considering the hurricane situation. It might be frustrating but once you find it and move in you'll settle in nicely.