I try to remember the good times. I also look at photos we had together and reminisce. I think what you are doing, topping up memories, is very smart. It refreshes your memory. On their birthdays and deathdays, we usually visit their grave and pray.
I try to remember the good times. I also look at photos we had together and reminisce. I think what you are doing, topping up memories, is very smart. It refreshes your memory. On their birthdays and deathdays, we usually visit their grave and pray.
Yeah, I think that's normal for most. I'll admit that I don't tend to go to gravesites much as I don't really feel the person is there anymore, although every now and then I go to my parents and grandparents graves and put some flowers on there.
Yeah, I can see that. It is also mostly a tradition. There is also the thought that if the dead can see us from beyond, it would be nice for them to see us go to their grave, since they can't read our minds.