You believe in yourself.
Hello friends of this community; You have not asked yourself how you see yourself in the face of the problems you have to solve, how you handle challenges, opportunities, do you believe in yourself, do you believe in your potential, in your competencies, when you face this type of situations that I am mentioning, you can face them with optimism or you always put yourself down.
At some point in life we have said “No, I am not going to be able to do this”, “this is not for me”, “I was not born for this”, I have not always been a self-confident person, in fact, I struggled with a lot of insecurity throughout my adolescence and part of the beginning of my youth, although I am a person who considers myself young,
It is true that with each year that passes and with each stage of our life, if we are intentional we can mature and we can develop self-confidence.
But it may be that you are watching time go by without feeling that you are growing in this aspect, in my adolescence for example I had a lot of insecurity about my appearance and my way of being, self-confidence is closely associated with self-esteem, so much so that if you do not have a You don't have the other and vice versa are things that we need to build day by day, some people, depending on their personality, their temperament or even the way they were raised, already have a greater tendency to believe in themselves.
But, on the other hand, there are those who, due to the same reasons and some shortcomings in their childhood, become children, adolescents and very insecure adults; Self-confidence is basically the belief in how many of us are capable of performing tasks and facing challenges, it is an internal feeling of security of certainty, that we can handle different situations.
And this ability to believe in ourselves to do anything, regardless of the circumstances, does not mean that you believe that you can do everything, or that you are better than other people, no, self-confidence is not pride, it is not arrogance, it is not arrogance. Self-confidence is not thinking more or less about yourself, it is understanding that even in the face of challenges that may arise you have the ability to at least face them, whether you will be successful or not that is another thing, but it is having that resilience, that perseverance. in situations that you have to face.
So we can see here that self-confidence is on one side and insecurity is on the other and it may be that you are also fluctuating between these two things, and this is because there are areas of our life in which we are more confident and others in which we are not. We have more insecurity, it may be that today, for example, in your professional life you feel quite confident, that is, you feel like a good professional, however in your love life you have a lot of insecurity and you do not have self-confidence in your relationships.
And this happens because each area of our life requires different skills and of course we also have a different history in each one, for example, in your professional life it is possible that you have practiced a lot, that since you were young you have been highly encouraged, that you have worked in several places and so you have acquired experience, maturity, you have made mistakes and you have learned a lot and today you have confidence.
On the other hand, when it comes to relationships, it may be that you have neglected developing social skills, that connection with other people, or it is possible that you have gone through some rejection, I don't know, I'm making it up, but that all contributes to having low self-confidence in that area then the first thing we have to do is identify, in what areas of your life today do you feel that insecurity, in what areas of your life have you not managed to be that confident person that you would like to be, and from that you will have to work in that specific area.
And this is crucial so that all areas of your life, studies, work, relationships, mental health, have a balance, one of the most beautiful things for me about self-confidence is the self-determination to simply pursue your goals and achieve them, very people insecure, for example, in professional life an insecure person will not perform less well in their tasks, because they will not believe that they are capable, they will not put in enough energy or effort and thus possibly will not achieve their goals.
It is interesting to think that if we believe that we cannot, we will probably not put in the necessary effort and we will not achieve our goals. However, when you believe that you can, it does not mean that it is 100% guaranteed that you will achieve it, but it does mean that you will do your best. you and you will act like you really can do it, so believe in yourself.
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