The Wonders of Time

Your story, my story, our story: every detail of it is time. It is the precious diamond that everyone should worth celebrate for, but gets pricy when unattended. Time is everything that happens; good, bad or everything in between.

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Time is infinite but limits us to do good things. In the context of relationship and camaraderie, influenced by the advancement of technology, specifically the social media along with our undying tenets, the real meaning of a genuine relationship is replaced virtually.

Couples supposedly cuddle their children, caress one another, instead they make lots of time watching entertainment shows, scrolling the news fed from their accounts, laugh with it, seek stresses' solutions from it. Couples fight a lot over chats and spills; solve their conflicts over texts and spills; no genuine personal talks, until the hunger of communication deepens, and the heart started to crawl for a real communication satisfaction, broke up and spills. That is how easy and priceless relationship of nowadays has become. Heart-crumpling and soul-taking to imagine but time will always take its role and never forgets rolling.

Time also gives us enough space but consumes space itself for disjunction. You might get out of the line in your relationship just as fighting over small things and not know how to reconcile, the connection and communication would have never been that smooth as before. You happened to fail your parents’ and siblings’ expectation in studies that result to shaming of your abilities, then the sweeter calls of exchanging conversation will fade. And gaps started to roll. Gaps would fill that time that the shame and hatred has been made.

Somehow, time gives us much time for studies but left us away from the real-world dilemmas unsolved. Time gives us space for every matter to be solved but if that space is not used wisely and productively, the pain relinquished may be healed but time will pass and someone can tickle it, it may remind you again the pain of the wounds which could make your hearts even further. Time may help us to realize but builds walls to avoid crossing of lines.

Moreover, time gives us either a successful but sad story or life of misery but happy. We may have finished our studies, got a degree and obtained the highest salary, we feel happy for those achievements, but if our shelter is like a firing range of hate, our life is like a crumpled paper in a rubbish bin.

Others may have lived in a remote, hillside, lamp less areas and only hunts animals for living, but got their family members together is an exceptional thing. It may be unfair by case, but it fairly distributes to how you live. Either you take a healthy diet or suffer from hunger, bond with your family together happy or lonely or live alone but not lonely, ride in an automobile or go walking, eat meat or grind only vegetables and native foods, when you get used to it as the taste of your lifestyle, your world will just go round smoothly. Time really gives a story we can treasure.

And yet, time gives us lessons too worthy to celebrate and too regretful to reflect and change. Karma is the perfect partner of time. What you do around will come back to you. If you stay humble and kind, even if people of different paths with different ways from different stations disdain you or care you,

Time is still, but brilliant.

It gives you enlightenment of acceptance and comfort regardless of who you with, what you have, where you take shelter. But, if you lose yourself in the position, you are in as the manager or head of company or financer of the family, looking too high in your ability, seeing yourself as a boss, autocratic and slay aggressively, and again, time loves to compensate your deeds with a poignant reminder.

However, time can also equate the dead in heaven and hell every day. You may have sinned a lot but time gives you instruments to make a change for yourself and for the people around you and be alive for long. Others may have sinned a lot but not given enough opportunity to be changed and change by themselves and just shot by a bullet and dead. Others may be afraid of committing sin but abruptly accused or falsified with a lost bullet, strived for life in days but died later. Others may pray every day but suddenly lose control along the highway and takes long recovery. All that things will happen every end of the day.

Imagine how well in calculation time is.

Time can also maintain the momentum of life.

We may feel happy today but tomorrow tells us a bad story.

We may feel full a lot today, tomorrow brings a hungry story. We can purchase the things we love today, tomorrow we'll just add it to cart without delivery. We may stir our delicious coffee during our winter days but glorify our lost money during summer days. We may have lots of pig/cattle farming for commodities but got a money-sucking sibling in disgrace. We may satisfy our wants for today but beg of needs for tomorrow.

Time is also a reminder of every memory that flourishes or saddens. You may see your old friend at a moment that indebted you a lot financially but disappeared suddenly. You just abruptly fall, and someone catches you quickly. It is such a wonderful moment of time as opposed in the former situation. Whether we feel happy, anxious, worried or sad, time will always give us a reasonable price of our efforts.

If you get a lower salary now but works harder, time surely justifies your sacrifice and prepares you better job in the future. But, if you just sit in the corner, go around the town, play mobile games or fiddle anywhere, time will also never forget to justify your actions. You may see yourself too high or too low, time will never fail to give yourself value or distress. Time gives us memory everlasting.

Time offers both the benefits and drawbacks that make us feel mad or appreciate, yet we must not forget that like us, it does its job, and the choice is on us on how we can make everything worthwhile. Time is sharp: sharply demands, sharply kills but at times when it is unsharpened and worn-out, it gives us a good chance to take the new dose of a sweet start.