so if heaven is some kind of perfect utopia, if a person did get there, they would have to change in order to maintain the perfect balance.
They also need to be apathetic knowing that people going to hell will suffer eternal anguish. If that's the case, I'd rather spent my time in hell where I can be me. I don't believe in god though and when I die, I will just cease to exist.
God is bitter, spiteful and vengeful. Not the kind of system I want to be involved with. Hell accepts all.