First of all, I would admit - I am a dinosaur as my 49th birthday is less than six months away. So my opinion is by default outdated. However I did use to have a pro photographer as my side gig. I would offer clients Photoshop option and I was really good at it. Women for the most part would choose the most unrealistic results as an option. I didn't notice as much with men, but times might be changing.
I really don't think there is much point to try to augment reality too much, while I do care a lot about my physical fitness I care a lot less about my looks. I think I am good enough for my age and I don't care to make myself look 20 years younger in my linked in picture :)
I do notice that my son is having a lot harder time with women than what I had, he mostly finds girlfriends in the game he is currently playing. He found some via online dating sites and some in real life, but it is very different from what I did before I was married. The world might have changed in the last ten plus years...
I am dinosaur adjacent, with 46 in a couple months.
I didn't give them those options - they got what I wanted them to have! I have only shot a few weddings in my time, and it wasn't what I would even consider a side gig. I think my goal in photography is to capture the moment as it feels. The editing I would do would clean it up, but they would be the best version of themselves in that moment, but very much themselves.
But, you got married. You found someone you could commit to and they you. It is rare for the younger generation now, and while they knock the attitudes of the dinosaurs, they are nearly all lonely, depressed, struggling for meaning. It is sad if they live life like that for decades on end, isn't it?