There are people around who can easily fall prey to false love. When we talk about love, we alwsys ends up cooking some intrinsic story about a boy and girl. But there are other love that exists and that we also need to consider as well. Love is a complex thing and anyone can make use of it in their advantage. Especially, when it comes to brother love, where some people ends up showing false love to deceive others over a property. Such false love is too dangerous and needed to be watchful , but how one could figure them out, as noone is aware of the true intention.
Recently, there was a partition between two brothers over their fathers property. I am one of the attendees in their decision making. At the meeting the younger one was violent and more aggressive. He was the one who initiated the courtroom inside the home. Infact it was kind of mu first experince, and broke many myths along the way. I used to think that such meeting used to completed in a peaceful way. But after attending the heated argument at the home, I was surprised and gain much experince. I never seen how two brothers can fight over their father property. It was more intense than a regular movie.
The younger one was demanding a property, and after some discussion (obviously heated one) if was named to him. Few people present their agreed and signed the written document. This is how family matters were sorted, rather than visiting the legal department. You can call it a famiky panchayat in presence of some elders and matured relatives. I was one of the relative and did not feel like interfering much in their family matters. I was called to be a attendee.
After sorting out the issue, and naming the property in the younger brothers name. We all left the place. It was one of the heated argument I ever seen in recent day. The elder brother too was devasted the way his younger brother shouting that day. I felt like they turned against each other and they were not going to talk again. Bit after a week time and living separately, the younger one asked the elder brother for performing some rituals at his new land. It is common in India ro worship the property before begining any construction. If was referred as "bhumi pujan". Me and few other had advised the elder brother not to do such thing, as the property is now been his brothers name, and he is the sole owner to it. His involvement on that property is not going to valued.
But still he bent to the false love and respect offered by the younger brother. I did not understand, was it a true respect or a false love with some cruel intention behind. There are other property which were not seperated yet. And the younger brother may be eyes g them too. And by giving false love and respect who know what he is aiming too. Such people are too dangerous to deal with. They have hidden agenda and intention which is hard to figure out.
The elder brother fall for it and performed the rituals as wanted by his younger brother, ever after we asked not to do. I am wondering now what if he is falling for a trap of fake love and deceit. But again we are not the fsnily member to decide. It is between the brothers and led them to sort . But what do you think of this situation. Are the elder brother really supposed to perform the worship?.
In good faith - Peace!!
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If there is true love, there would never be arguments but everything would be in harmony and respect for each other, love is respect and consideration. I don't think the older brother should do that. Complicated situation when justice does not act...
Property dispute is a nasty thing, bhai relations kabhi normal nahi hote uske baad. Chahe kuch bhi ho jaye. Bade, chote ke beech mein agar understanding hain to theek hain bhi agar nahi hain to be phir court and 100 other nonsense will enter to disturb otherwise a peaceful life.
Rahi baat love ki, jab tak hain tab tak hain. Phir aage bhagawan ji marzi. Sach bata raha hun bahut gande wale jhagadhe dekhen hain meine, log ek doosre ke sar phod rahe hain aur naa jaane kya kya. Phir saalon tak baatcheet nahi. Kya hi matlab zindagi ka jab apne bhai behen ko help naa kar sake mushkil time par, bolo?
It is sad to see how a property, an inheritance or position of goods can make two brothers argue. The truth is that both should do their part, because the younger one got carried away by anger, leading to shouting.
The best thing would be for both to sit down and talk with their hands on their hearts, remembering that above any material thing is the love of brotherhood and that should not harm any inheritance or position of goods.