When it comes to travels, I simply pack up my bags and hits the road. I do not plan and most ofnthenitinary were scheduled midway. I already been to such trip number of times and enjoy every moment. I am master of myself so nobody bother to I fluency my decision. Be it conveyance, accomodation or food.
My friend who is on a trip to Puri, with famiky to welcome New Ysar seems to be very frustrated. He called me today and exhale out everything in one go. It has not something to do with the place. However, he was frustrated with another family who accompanied them in the trip. Although they made the plan together, but something is not going out right for them. There seems to be "difference in opinion". While my friend is very adaptable with the situation his friend does bot seems to compromise. This seems to spoiling my friend's trip.
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This seems to be the case with many individuals. No two individuals process information exactly the same way, resulting in diverse opinions. Differences of opinion occur because people have unique life experiences, access to different information, personal values, cultural backgrounds, and perspectives on interpreting that information, leading to varied interpretations and conclusions about the same topic. People prioritize different values and beliefs, which can color their opinions on various issues. This is what appears to haunting my friend.
When we plan a solo trip, we are ready to face all.kind of music. I remember sleeping out on railwaynplatform than eating out in roadside eaters or living a minilaist way. I had some bitter experince accompanying someone who is not compliance with my thought process. There are two kind of people one who like to enjoy the luxuries of life, while the other want to enjoy the feel of everything. In my case by avoiding the comfort, I thoroughly enjoy the culture and tradition of the new place by mixing and gelling with localities. As I said being master of my own gives me thr freedom to be myself, and not to be dependent on other.
I think my friends did the right thing by vaping out the frustration over the call. Sometimesnit get cimplicate to sort out the clash of opinion. However, sorting out the differences is the best medicine.
To "sort" a difference of opinion, actively listen to each perspective, seek common ground, focus on facts rather than emotions, be open to changing your mind, and work collaboratively to reach a solution that addresses everyone's concerns, even if it's not exactly what each person initially wanted. Some of the key steps to sorting a difference of opinion includes :
Pay close attention to what the other person is saying, ask clarifying questions, and acknowledge their viewpoint before expressing your own.
Don't take personal offense to someone's opinion; focus on the idea itself and not the individual expressing it.
Look for areas where you both agree, even if the specifics differ. Consider the possibility of finding a middle ground or a solution that incorporates aspects of both viewpoints.
Don't insult or belittle the other person based on their opinion. Allow everyone to fully express their thoughts before responding. In simple words prioritize respectful communication and understanding over winning an argument is what more importsnt in sorting the clash of opinion.
There are higher chances of conflict in the situation like that of my friends have been. It is alwsys better to silently handle them and avoid any heated argument.
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What I feel that lacks a bit in the most basic discussion over the last couple of years is that a lot of people lack the ability to listen and respect the opinion of the other. I don't think it works in just 'blabbling' out your opinion and sticking with it. Opinions deserve discussion in a respectfull manner, and that apparently is quite challenging for people, especially online ;)
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It's very important to travel with people who are on the same frequency. We as a family never prefer to travel with anyone for the same reason, because everyone has different lifestyle and that does show up in travels.
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