I'm just sitting in the bench. And this thoughts lingering in my head;
I don't even understand why a lot of people conclude us as a bad person or the wrong side for reacting after being disrespected, I'm just a human who has feelings and gets hurt.
But one thing I realized is that we are not the ones who are toxic, but the ones who provoke you the way you react. Your feelings, your reaction is all valid because you feel disrespected.
Lesson learned. Never judge people who reacted after being disrespected. Saying "you're too emotional" or "you have a bad attitude" because in the first place they provoke you to react that way because they disrespected you.
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It's true, a few days ago a friend told me something that I didn't like, my reaction was to take my time. We are friends, and we have known each other for a long time, he gave me my space. After that we talked about what happened.
I told him what I didn't like, he also responded to it. Everything was clear, and the truth is that we continue being friends.
What you say is true, without a doubt. But, for every misunderstanding there is a solution: to talk calmly.
You have a point. Communication is the best to those people who are open minded for their action and at some point admit their mistake. But I also bear in my mind that people have different understanding.
Indeed. The sooner we understand the better.
It's true every feeling it's valid, I gare for example the toxic positivity. Bad feelings are valid too.