Life is a mystery full of experiences; a time should always come in a man or woman's life when he or she should sit down with himself and take stocks of life.
2024 has ended and here we are in 2025, such a long life journey so far.
Recently i had been reflecting over my journey so far growing up.
It had been a journey full of beautiful and ugly experiences respectively 😂.
It is undeniably obvious that a child's upbringing forms the foundation and ladder of the child's life outcome in the future. Starting from food, environment, academic, peer associations etc.
As a child i never knew the reality of life, was just busy with my biscuits and cheeses 😂. Then tagged along with friends and academics and at the end we are here right now.
So coming from a past full of both beautiful and ugly experiences, wins and losses, trials and errors, mistakes and lessons faced with real life experiences, it's now a whole lot of hardwork to learn, unlearn and relearn 😩.
Oh my 😩!!
Building the right relationships, taking courses to upgrade and meet up with the current economic trends, trying out new things daily no matter how hard.
Now faced with another phase of life where literally the environment, society and family are demanding and expecting a lot from me; oh i wasn't told this is the reality of life 😩!!
It is at this point of life that one either fights to emerge successful or remain down at a spot for life.
It is quite unfortunate that a lot of persons had thrown in the towel at this point! Some had committed suicide and some had developed a thick skin to accommodate the mistakes and remain at the spot believing that life is not fair to them.
The truth is life is not fair to anyone, but those who fights through believing will emerge successful.
There are some families one will watch and feel life is fair to these ones, but the truth is at some point in the history of that family, someone fought and paid the prize for the generation coming to enjoy.
So the question is! What if you are to pay the prize for the generation coming to enjoy from your sacrifices ?🤔.
So i realised that i am to fight through a lot of truphs and go through some tough experiences to lay a new foundation for those coming behind.
This journey is usually not funny, i know some of you reading this post is on the same track righ now.
Now another new phase of a fresh year has come! Welcome to 2025 🤗🤗.
The question now is; What next?
The year is so fresh and new, yet it's still same old you that entered the new year, nothing changed. But the year will only be new when you start making new decisions to be better.
My 2025 is full of new decisions, new goals, new plans, new relationship goals, new financial goals etc.
But i realised that having new goals and making new plans are not enough, discipline and actions are also a prerequisite to meeting up with these goals and plans.
Now trying to take action steps, i realized that 24 hours are no more enough for me in a day, i need extra hours per day!! 😫 i exclaimed most times.
But i strongly believe that 2025 is gonna be on a good cruize, because a lot of mistakes had been made over the years and a lot of lessons had been learnt also.
So i know better right now, consciously taking the right steps coming from the depth of past experiences.
Experience is the best teacher! they said. But i feel mentorship is the best teacher. It is entirely a waste of would be useful time to make mistakes and learn from them.
Because of this, i take the bull by the horn to make sure those behind me don't need to go through all these hurdles, they rather follow and learn.
Mentorship will help you bypass a lot of mistakes, errors and unforeseen losses, so i will advice you through experienc, to get a mentor in any area you want to venture into this 2025, you will arrive early and successful.
So i am fully ready for 2025, not afraid of the unseen, taking actions gradually as I'm supposed to and very expectant of the great success ahead.
What is your own plan for 2025, have you started taking some actions?
Nice having you around my blog till this point.
Regards 🥰🥰
Having a good mentor makes going through life easier. Thank you so much for this piece.
Yes ma'am
You will not make some mistakes if you have a good mentor.
Of course especially the action part. It's a must. I enjoyed your blog
Yes ooo
Without action, the plans and goals are useless.