Here is an interesting talk about immune systems and allergens.
[The Peter Attia Drive] #277 ‒ Food allergies: causes, prevention, and treatment with immunotherapy | Kari Nadeau, M.D., Ph.D. #thePeterAttiaDrive
https://podcastaddict.com/the-peter-attia-drive/episode/166035324 via @PodcastAddict
Though, I think you are missing the point of the article.
I totally understand the point of your post, and I hope you are able to take some time off work to spend some quality time with your daughter. I'm sure she'll remember your effort for years to come and it may even shape the way she looks after people when she grows up... so I think there's an amazing opportunity for you to teach her something special.
But also... if my thinking was the exact opposite of the way things work, I'd want someone to call it out too.
That podcast definitely seems really informative in treating food allergies... but obviously food and viruses are very different. Catching a cold virus when you're a kid doesn't prevent you from getting colds as an adult... I'm sure both you and I would have absolutely invincible immune systems and wouldn't have had a runny nose or sniffle in 35 years if that were true.
Colds and flu change over time, which is why we keep catching them. A yearly flu shot (it isn't a vaccine) is based on a prediction of what the future flu will look like, which means that sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but what it is looking to do is try to mimic what is to come. However, the more robust and broad the antibody range is in a person, the better they are able to handle future flus. It is like having diversity, there is less single points of vulnerability, like a distributed network. My thinking isn't the exact opposite of the way things work.
For instance, if a kid gets chicken pox, they itch for a bit and a few days later they are fine. If an adult who has never had chicken pox before gets it, it can be very severe. Chicken pox is a virus.