Birthdays for me are special because celebrating them is synonymous with the love that two people had to bring you into the world.
In my case, I try not to let any of these dates go without a celebration.
At home it is a tradition that on the day of one's birthday we all wait until 12 o'clock at night to give him his present and start his birthday.
Now my wife and I live there and we keep the tradition.
Her birthday was April 11 and we went to a hotel for three days, which is what she enjoys.
As for what you say about driving a long time to engage in conversation with the kids I am fine with that because for that anything is a good reason.
Congratulations to your wife and to both of you on your 10th anniversary. Happy day. Cheers and best regards.