Recently I saw a news in the networks about something besides sad, I did not pay much attention, then I see the news again, then it made me think a lot: It is that no self-respect!.
The fact happened in a town in my state of Bolivar, which said: **Young woman dies as a result of third degree burns **, going into more details about the event, is that the woman in a fit of hatred against her partner with whom she had argued, sprinkled gasoline in the house that was theirs, the car, in that eagerness did not realize that she was also bathed in the flammable liquid, that when she ignited the car, was hit by the fire, causing the fatal burns, with the fatal outcome.
A separation is hard, strong, but we should not let anger, rage, hatred invade us, to seek revenge against the one who hurt us and that revenge can go wrong, as it happened to this young woman.
For example, I separated from my partner, it hurt, but I was not alone, I had my children, my family, a profession, I had, as we say, the necessary weapons to get ahead without having to depend on someone else.
This is what happens today with many young women, who escape from their homes, where perhaps they did not like the rules, where they did not like to be told things, at the first opportunity they see to leave, without even having had a profession, or a trade with which they can make a living.
They form relationships with partners perhaps in the same young situations, who also leave home, with day jobs, they believe that they will live a life where only love will give them everything, but not only love is lived, the situation increases when the children arrive, who also suffer.
There are women who become dependent on their partners, they feel incapable of doing anything, with so many things to learn and undertake.
Then jealousy appears, which is not good at all, followed by unhealthy habits such as drugs, alcohol, cigarettes and let's stop counting.
They do not accept when a relationship can not continue, even more when the other partner already has another one, of course this does not only happen in women, there are men who also do things when they do not accept that their partner does not want to continue with him. Before there were more men who acted that way, but now women do too.
The family also plays a very important role, if they notice strange behaviors in that family member, give them affection, protection, do not push them away, because first the couple leaves them, the family rejects them, they do not find a friend, a word of encouragement, they fall into vices and if their brain is weak, bad thoughts come, with fatal outcomes as happened here.
If you see that the relationships can no longer continue, you have to leave them, maybe they are not friends, but for your own well-being, your inner peace, maybe later you will find someone who really loves you, values you, form a home, be happy. Make a profession, have your children. Set goals and reach them, life is too beautiful for them to end theirs in a fit of anger, jealousy, for another, either by accident or because they wanted it that way, as if this is the solution, when in fact they leave pain in their families.
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