@thoughts-in-time I didn't read his comments because, after his first comment, I muted him. But I just wanted to say thank you. For speaking up and saying something to this person. It made me feel heard, cared for, and touched my heart. Both you and @barge were so amazing for saying something to him. It's admirable and kind. Thank you for your words and for reading my post and GETTING it. That all means so much to me. I really appreciate you.
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Your welcome Cyn, that was superb writing btw! I resonated and sympathized with your story. Guys get bullied too, but girls can sometimes be meaner how they go about it. For guys, it's either a rite of passage or something that you never overcome. Not super proud of this, but multiple times I've overcome bullying with violence. It's probably not something that would fly today, but back in the day, you could get in fights without the police getting involved. Today, they'll put cuffs on a five-year-old because everything has gotten so upside down. Anyhow. Good on you for embracing and turning up your inner weird. There are too many people living inauthentic lives and putting on airs because society makes them afraid to explore, for lack of a better word, their "weirdness." Weirdness and uniqueness aren't distinct cousins, and modern society likes to program cookie-cutter people into doing the cookie-cutter things. As they say, variety is the spice of life! Keep on being true to yourself! ~ ❤️🙏 ~
Well, I must confess that I too turned to violence to stop it. In high school. It's how I started being harsh, mean, and angry. I had enough of their shit so I shaved my head and stomped around in Doc Martens (Ox Blood 10 eyes thank you very much lol) and I hurt some people that at the time I felt deserved it. But the bullying stopped after a few altercations. And I definitely remember the days when kids would fight without the cops coming. Now they come when someone yells at someone else. So eh. But It's true, there are too many living inauthentically, and I did it for years because I was afraid if I couldn't shave my head and wear Doc Martens that I couldn't handle the bullies. I have learned to be me regardless if people hate it and I wish that for everyone else too.
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Ahh, yes, fighting can be a rite of passage for girls too! It's funny how IRL, the various things can come to a screeching halt after you show that you can wipe the floor with someone. Then as we grow up, we have to learn how to walk away or be willing to catch a case over some ego stuff. Granted, after you realize you can defend yourself, it resolves that burning desire of having something to prove because you already have. Then you can walk around with your head held up a little higher, and for whatever reason, it sends off this natural vibe that acts as a repellent to those who get off on messing with people. State of mind is such a powerful force, and moving through this rite of passage alters you from one state to another that you might not even have been aware of before. Sometimes I worry about those who haven't. Many times they grow up to be power-tripping individuals that get off on bullying others however they can. ~ ❤️ 🙏 ~
I think the adults who bully now are the children who were too scared to bully others (online I mean) they can hide behind a screen and say what they want because they don't fear getting punched in the face by a girl lol Though I no longer wish to do that to people (well not too often haha). And yes when I realized I could stand up for myself it definitely made me hold my head up higher and made people think twice before saying shit to me. It's also easier to walk away from those who are power-tripping and bullying because I know if I have to, I can defend myself and those I love with words or fists. Though I am glad it's just words now. I don't fancy time in jail, ugh not my favorite place lol. 🙏❤️
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So basically, you wanna punch me?
It took me 5 lines to figure that out.
Thanks to your friends who could not leave it alone, I might keep downvoting your shit.
Do you really want to defend this evil cunt?
"I might keep downvoting your shit."Listen felixxx, you vain ass motherfucker. We are not talking to you. Nor are we talking about you. Unless, of course, you are identifying as the bully in this situation?
Are you the bully?!Here all this time, I just thought you were a random twat, but if you want to identify as the bully in this situation, I got something for you. Do you understand how many zeros are left in the fucks I have left to give?!Ask yourself this: Are you ready? // Do you really want to?You've had your chance to apologize for being a cunt and you disrespectfully declined. So why don't you go fuck the fuck off before this shit escalates further. And don't think that I don't know your fucking game. Oh I got your fucking number, buddy. It looks like this:
"Noobs need to be afraid of downvotes,"You'd better shut the fuck up and fuck off or"I might"summon a demon who will tag you daily on hive and humiliate you forever on this platform. GIVE ME A FUCKING REASON.recalculating
Give me a reason to not downvote your psycho shit, lol.
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