Al principio le hacíamos conversación cuando abríamos la puerta en las tardes, pero el problema es que montaba campamento allí y no se iba en toda la tarde. Un día dejé la puerta abierta y cuando volteo ya estaba dentro de la casa jajaja.
Me daba algo de lastima porque es un niño muy simpático y muy poco lo sacan, solo al Colegio.
A veces pasaba y cuando veia a la abuela metida en el celular y el chinito aburrido, esperando a que alguien pasara para enseñarle sus juguetes y bueno, eso me arrugaba el corazón. Tiene muchísimos juguetes, cada vez que pasaba me enseña uno distinto, pero lo que el quería era atención y se notaba que no la tenía 😓
Muchas veces le dije a mi hija: 'Vamos a entrar, agarramos ese celular y se lo hacemos volar hasta el estacionamiento a ver si le pone cuidado a ese niño'. 😸😈
Ganas no me faltaban. La abuela es una señora joven, no trabaja fuera, es ama de casa. ¿Le costaría mucho sacar de vez en cuando a esa criatura? Los fines de semana que me quedaba en casa lo único que se escuchaba en el edificio era al chinito cantando canciones infantiles desde la reja de su casa, sobre todo la canción LA LECHUZA en chino 😓, o armando berrinche porque no lo dejaban salir. ¿Saben que es lo que más me enternecía de ese niño? Que era tan generoso. A veces llegaba a obsequiarme de sus galletas, una vez me regaló una chupeta de colores 🍭. Con lo difícil que es que un niño te regale un dulce... era un amor, tenía un lindo corazón, quizás aun lo tiene. ¿Saben por qué hablo de él en tiempo pasado? Porque al chinito sus abuelos le obsequiaron un celular grandote y conoció a varios youtubers que ahora lo tienen aun mas entretenido que a su abuela en el celular. Ya no canta sus canciones, ni llega hasta la puerta de mi apartamento, quizás ya no se siente tan solo como antes, o quizás si? Ahora cuando paso solo se ve su mirada perdida en el celular, sentado en el sofá de su casa y un silencio absoluto en el pasillo del edificio.
Lo que puede hacer un aparato electrónico con el tiempo de un adulto y con la simpatía y la vivacidad de un niño pequeño. Los niños se están convirtiendo en zombies con nuestro consentimiento y apoyo si desde tan pequeños les damos celulares. Lo que necesitan es atención y vivir la infancia siendo libres, no detrás de la pantalla de un celular. Seamos mas conscientes.
Muchas gracias por leer esta breve reflexión.
Hi Hivers, today I want to share with you this 100% true story. Follow me imaginary:
You come home from work, wash your face, change into your hobo clothes and assemble coffee and set out for your little moment of relaxation before continuing with your chores. Coffee is ready! What a blessing! there was a little tip of sweet bread left 😁, you check if you are getting good Wi-fi "borrowed" from the neighbor, you get ready to enter Hive and open the door to let the breeze in. Suddenly you feel a presence 👀, or no.... you hear it from far away and it comes towards you. And you say Nooooo, why 😅 It's the little neighbor next door. I don't know his name for sure because he can't speak Spanish very well. Yes, he is the son of Chinese, who speak Mandarin. He is a boy who was around 5 years old at the beginning of this story, very extroverted and always talkative. He was the noise of the building, you could only hear him in the hallway at all hours, and incredible, he was always waiting to see if I opened the gate or went out to peek and say hello 😁, I could pass 10 times in front of his door and he always said hello.
At first we made conversation with him when we opened the door in the afternoon, but the problem was that he would set up camp there and wouldn't leave all afternoon. One day I left the door open and when I turned around he was already inside the house hahaha.
I felt a little sorry for him because he is a very nice boy and he is rarely taken out, only to school.
Sometimes I would pass by and when I saw grandma on her cell phone and the little boy bored, waiting for someone to pass by to show him his toys and well, that made my heart crumple. He has a lot of toys, every time I passed by he showed me a different one, but what he wanted was attention and I could tell he didn't have it 😓.
Many times I told my daughter, 'Let's go inside, grab that cell phone and fly it out to the parking lot and see if she'll watch out for that kid.' 😸😈
I had no lack of desire. Grandma is a young lady, she doesn't work outside, she's a housewife, would it cost her much to take that creature out from time to time? On the weekends when I stayed at home the only thing you could hear in the building was the little Chinese guy singing nursery rhymes from the gate of his house, especially the song LA LECHUZA in Chinese 😓, or throwing a tantrum because they wouldn't let him go out. Do you know what touched me the most about that child? He was so generous. Sometimes he would even give me some of his cookies, once he gave me a colorful lollipop 🍭. He was such a sweetheart, he had a beautiful heart, maybe he still does. Do you know why I talk about him in the past tense? Because his grandparents gave him a big cell phone and he met several youtubers who now have him even more entertained than his grandmother on the cell phone. He doesn't sing his songs anymore, nor does he come to the door of my apartment, maybe he doesn't feel as lonely as before, or maybe he does? Now when I walk by you can only see his eyes lost in his cell phone, sitting on the couch in his house and an absolute silence in the hallway of the building.
What an electronic device can do with the time of an adult and the friendliness and liveliness of a small child. Children are becoming zombies with our consent and support if we give them cell phones from such a young age. What they need is attention and to live their childhood being free, not behind the screen of a cell phone. Let's be more conscious.
Thank you very much for reading this brief reflection.
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Tienes razón mi Katy, los niños se pierden metidos en los celulares
Muy triste lo de ese niño. Cambio radical
Lamentablemente es así. Ahorita San Nicolás prefiere traer equipos eléctricos modernos que bicicleta y papagayos. Solo debemos adaptarnos a los tiempos y establecer límites con los hijos. Y muy especialmente dar el ejemplo como adultos.
Saludos amiga.
Tal cual lo dice 🥲 saludos! Y gracias por leer 😊
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Es así los aparatos electrónicos atrapan la atención total de los niños ,que muchas veces hablas con ellos y si normalmente no escuchas con eso parecieran hipnotizados, el control del tiempo de uso de esos aparatos debe tenerse en cuenta,eso le cambia hasta el comportamiento. Saludos
Katty qué historia tan bonita 😭.