Hola mi gente soy nueva en esta comunidad, me gusta haber encontrado una comunidad donde uno puede expresar experiencias y vivencias que han dejado enseñanzas, les hablaré un poco de una situación que me hizo cambiar mi forma de ver a los demás. Se preguntarán porque el tÃtulo es un poco confuso pero para mà fue el ideal a la situación que vive, muchas veces nos damos la oportunidad de cambiar en cuestiones de ámbito laboral sentir que debemos superarnos, sabes que eres responsable y más cuando tienes responsabilidad a tu cargo y personas que no conoces bien , pero ser el nuevo implica asumir el reto de sobrevivir establecer la confianza es un punto importante y esencial, empecé en este lugar como asistente administrativo me gustó mucho estaba en mi sona de confort todo iba bien , era un buen ambiente todos nos llevamos execelente buena comunicación.
Hello Lotus community I am new, I like to have found a community where one can express experiences and experiences that have left teachings, I will talk a little of a situation that made me change my way of seeing others.
You may wonder why the title is a little confusing but for me it was the ideal to the situation that lives, many times we give ourselves the opportunity to change in matters of work feel that we must overcome, you know you are responsible and more when you have responsibility in your charge and people who do not know well, but being the new implies taking on the challenge of surviving to establish trust is an important and essential point, I started in this place as administrative assistant I liked it very much I was in my comfort zone everything was going well, was a good environment we all got along execelente good communication.
Hasta un dÃa que empecé a notar si no estabas en un grupo no pertenecÃa eso no era lo peor, porque uno puede lidiar con gente asà decido no pertenecer a ninguno solamente concentrarme en mi, hasta un dÃa que note que muchos paciente cuando le llevaba su cuenta me decÃan pero tú no eres la de siempre ya yo hice el pago y yo asombrado 😲 les decÃa está bien envÃeme el capture al momento de verificar siempre me daba cuenta que no eran los mismos datos para mà eso era una situación que estaba fuera de mis manos pero caiga mucha responsabilidad en mi eso siempre pasaba en turno de 24 horas o nocturno. Me preguntaba que debÃa hacer ya si me callaba estaba igual encubriendo y podrÃa verme envuelta es situaciones que no me pertenecÃa, pero aún asà sabÃa que ese era la decisión que debà tomar decido callar y reunir pruebas para cuando confrontar tenÃa base, muchos comentaban que la persona si está acostumbrada a hacer eso siempre, ya eso se era un total descontrol, pido consejos en casa y me dicen es mejor que hables para que no te culpen a ti también era un dÃa lunes cuando pido la reunión con mis superiores, cuál fue mi mayor sorpresa que por no hablar en mi momento me cuestionaron sentà culpa ajena me defendà hasta con los dientes estaba dispuesta a entregar mi puesto lleve lo que habÃa recaudado, entonces entendieron que era momento de actuar, sin embargo a fuera de la oficina habÃa un nido de avispa esperando para agobiarme con sus comentarios más de uno me dijo porque hiciste eso nos perjudicaste a todos y mi respuesta fue sencilla yo no perjudique a nadie ustedes mismos lo hicieron por tomar lo que no es suyo si no decÃa nada era yo la que iba ha salir mal de allÃ. Ya no me sentÃa cómoda no era un sitio sano para mà expongo mi renuncia ellos no la querÃan aceptar me proponer cambiarme de departamento fue una buena decisión, pase por personas excelente muchas personas me tomaron mucho aprecio y ya sabÃan cómo era trabajar conmigo me gustaba tener todo al dÃa no acumular mucho trabajo.
Until one day I began to notice that if you were not in a group I did not belong that was not the worst, because one can deal with people like that I decide not to belong to any only concentrate on me, until one day I noticed that many patients when I was taking their account told me but you are not the same as always and I made the payment and I was amazed 😲 I said ok send me the capture at the time of verification I always realized that they were not the same data for me that was a situation that was out of my hands but I fall much responsibility on me that always happened in 24 hour shift or night shift. I wondered what I should do because if I kept quiet I was covering up and I could be involved in situations that did not belong to me, but still I knew that was the decision I should take I decide to keep quiet and gather evidence for when confronting had basis, many commented that the person is used to always do that, and that was a total lack of control, I ask for advice at home and they tell me it is better to talk so you do not blame you too was a Monday when I ask for the meeting with my superiors, What was my biggest surprise that for not speaking at the time I was questioned I felt someone else's fault I defended myself to the teeth I was ready to hand over my job and take what I had collected, then they understood that it was time to act, however outside the office there was a wasp's nest waiting to overwhelm me with their comments more than one told me why did you do that you hurt us all and my answer was simple I did not hurt anyone you did it yourselves by taking what is not yours if I did not say anything I was the one who was going to go wrong from there. I did not feel comfortable anymore, it was not a healthy place for me, I exposed my resignation, they did not want to accept it, they proposed me to change my department, it was a good decision, I went through excellent people, many people liked me a lot and they already knew how it was to work with me, I liked to have everything up to date, not to accumulate a lot of work.
pero siempre mantengo este lema no hay mal que por bien no venga porque a pesar de haberme cambiado de departamento una vez más que otra cubrÃa guardia encontrando las mismas fallas y eso me abrumaba mucho y ya me afectaba siempre habÃa discordia no habÃa esa confianza entre los trabajadores y por mi paz mental me retire aún asà ellos renuente a no aceptar pero ya no querÃa estar allà sentÃa culpa por algo que no tenÃa nada ver y que estaban acostumbrados a que todo aquel que pasaba por allà no decÃa nada y a mi enseñaron que si necesitas pide, pero nos le quedó de otra y aceptar que ya no iba a prestar mis servicios pero salà con tranquilidad y sobre todo dejando mis puertas abiertas si querÃa volver.
But I always keep this motto that every cloud has a silver lining because despite having changed departments one time more than another I covered the same failures and that overwhelmed me a lot and it always affected me there was always discord there was no trust between workers and for my peace of mind I left even so they reluctant to not accept but no longer wanted to be there I felt guilty for something that had nothing to do and they were used to anyone who passed through there did not say anything and I was taught that if you need to ask, but I had no choice but to accept that I was no longer going to provide my services but I left with peace of mind and above all leaving my doors open if I wanted to return.
Está situación me enseñó en que tienes que confiar es en ti mismo hacer las cosas bien por ser mejor cada dÃa sin perjudicar a nadie. simplemente es una experiencia sin daño a nadie cada dÃa vivimos situaciones que llevan a tomar decisiones para no dañar a nadie.
This situation taught me that you have to trust in yourself to do things well to be better every day without harming anyone. It is simply an experience without harming anyone every day we live situations that lead to make decisions not to harm anyone.
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