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Hola! Me contenta saludar a esta bella comunidad, y me llena de emoción poder participar en construir un reto de 21 días de amor en pareja, en atención a la invitación que nos hace @rosahidalgo. Es lindo detenerse para alimentar una relación, teniendo en cuenta lo fácil que es caer en la rutina con el paso del tiempo. Como mujer con más de 20 años de casada, reconozco que es un verdadero reto hacer que los detalles sean parte de la relación a largo plazo.
Recientemente, Mario y yo tomamos unos días de escapada a solas para quedarnos en una casa de playa. Fue maravillosos estar a solas, sin compromisos laborales, familiares o de otro tipo. Solo despertar para conversar, compartir, intimar...estar en la playa sin mirar el reloj ni el teléfono. Hablar de nuestras metas, proyectos y deseos. Consentirnos mutuamente. Fueron momentos que nos fortalecieron, y nos llenaron de entusiasmo para dar un nuevo giro a nuestra relación.
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Hello! I am happy to greet this beautiful community, and it fills me with excitement to participate in building a challenge of 21 days of love as a couple, in response to the invitation made by @rosahidalgo. It is nice to stop to nurture a relationship, considering how easy it is to fall into a routine as time goes by. As a woman with more than 20 years of marriage, I recognize that it's a real challenge to make the details part of the long-term relationship.
Recently, Mario and I took a few days away alone to stay at a beach house. It was wonderful to be alone, with no work, family or other commitments. Just waking up to talk, share, get intimate...be on the beach without looking at the clock or the phone. Talking about our goals, projects and desires. Pampering each other. These were moments that strengthened us, and filled us with enthusiasm to give a new turn to our relationship.
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I realize that getting away alone, and especially getting away from routine, is one of the activities we neglect the most over time in a couple's relationship. There always seem to be other priorities, and we stop making connecting with our loved one a constant need for attention. As time goes by, children, aging parents, work and other responsibilities can take the spotlight away from a couple's life. In fact, sometimes it happens without us even realizing it. And even though we love each other, I think that somehow we have stopped "falling in love". Some would say that this is what "mature love" is like. But, to quote the Argentine writer and poet Jorge Luis Borges, "one is in love when one realizes that the other person is unique." We do well to pause to observe what makes "unique" that companion on the road to whom we open our hearts.
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Ahora pienso en invitar a Mario a iniciar este reto de 21 días de detalles en pareja el 1er día del nuevo año (1 Enero de 2024). Algunas de las cosas que propongo para nuestro reto son las siguientes:
- Revivir el primer beso: Recordar y recrear juntos ese momento especial. ¿Cómo ocurrió? ¿Dónde?. Hagamos el esfuerzo de recrear el mayor número posible de detalles.
- Sesión Especial de Fotos: Hacernos fotos para un portafolio de “NOSOTROS” con fotografías muy románticas en pareja. Puede elegirse uno o varios escenarios. Después, ubicar ese espacio especial para colocar la galería de fotos, de modo que sea visible siempre para nosotros.
- Hacer un juego de preguntas mutuas para evaluar cuánto conocemos el cuerpo de nuestro compañero. Por ejemplo: “mi lunar, o mi cicatriz, ¿está a la derecha o a la izquierda de mi espalda?”
- Noche de cambio de rutina: salir a bailar, a cenar, y pasar la noche fuera de casa. Significa arreglarse de forma especial para esa cita. Arreglarse para gustarle al ser amado.
- Una actividad de crecimiento personal en pareja: un taller, una clase de baile, de pintura...lo que ambos disfrutemos.! Puede ser la actividad de un par de horas o de un fin de semana. Lo que ambos elijamos para nuestro disfrute y conexión. (Por cierto, con esto me ha resultado muy especial mi conexión en pareja. Te lo recomiendo!!!).
I am now thinking of inviting Mario to start this 21-day couple detailing challenge on the 1st day of the new year (January 1, 2024). Some of the things I propose for our challenge are the following:
- Relive the first kiss: Remember and recreate together that special moment. How did it happen, where, and how did it happen? Let's make the effort to recreate as many details as possible.
- Special Photo Shoot: Let's take pictures for a "WE" portfolio with very romantic pictures as a couple. You can choose one or several scenarios. Then, locate that special space to place the photo gallery, so that it is always visible to us.
- Ask each other questions to evaluate how much we know about our partner's body. For example, "is my mole, or my scar, on the right or left side of my back?"
- Change of routine night: going out dancing, dining, and spending the evening away from home. It means getting all dolled up in a special way for that date. Dressing up to please the one you love.
- A personal growth activity as a couple: a workshop, a dance class, a painting class...whatever we both enjoy! It can be a couple of hours or a weekend activity. Whatever we both choose for our enjoyment and connection. (By the way, this has been very special for my couple connection. I recommend it!!!).
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Estaré muy ansiosa por leer tu propuesta en el reto de 21 días de amor en pareja. Con gusto, seguiré tus sugerencias en este juego bonito que hacemos bien en jugar.
Att. Shaly.
In the end, when we meet our special person, we are able to plan those details that can make them fall in love. And when we agree together on a reconnection proposal, the results can be wonderful in terms of falling in love.
I will be very eager to read your proposal in the 21 days of love challenge as a couple. I will gladly follow your suggestions in this beautiful game that we do well to play.
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