Romance is inborn, you don’t need to learn from others!
Hello the beautiful people of Hive. I am here to write something about romance. It is my personal feelings and thoughts that may be different from you as well.
I know many people especially the couples, they blame their partners for not being so romantic! But most of the people are not so familiar what is romance and how to be so romantic?
Many of the young generation get the idea of romance from the movies and serials nowadays, and what they learn? They learn the nudity and vulgar sex often! And also the porn industry make them beast sometimes but reality is that the romance is far from these nonsense. I am not telling that romance is completely sex-free but there should be the eternal feelings in the process. If people are so busy to exhaust our emotions with porn, or sex toys, then what is left in our eternal feelings? As a result day by day people are becoming emotionless and leading a robotic lifestyle and also robotic sex schedules with our partners! But unfortunately there is no such feelings that can be called romance.
But just a decade ago, the social structure was not like the current ones, people loved each other beyond the existing dates and passing overnight too and often! If you don't miss your loved ones then how you can realize the feeling of emptyness without your partner accompany. Now when you want to meet you are meeting and passing overnight and the love is gone without the extreme feelings. That's why the break up is now a daily activity! People change their partners now and then and even girlfriend or boyfriend is not existing after a single day. It's not bad to pass the overnight but now no one walks on the moonlit night or pass the night by the sea but in the hotel room! and from the very next morning they loose their all feelings and behave like they don't know each other!
But just revaluate the past generation, they love to read the novel, poetry and drama, and they have a plenty of epic love stories that are still appealing to read. You will laugh, you will feel happy, you will cry and you will feel the characters in those literatures. Can you find a drop of ink of those literature in the current romance in movies or serials?
I think the answer is no, but I really miss those feelings of anxiety and waiting for weeks to meet or get the letters!
I want to end my writing by mentioning a nice poetry by William Shakespeare, Love
“If I should think of love, I’d think of you.
If I should think of love
I’d think of you, your arms uplifted,
Tying your hair in plaits above,
The lyre shape of your arms and shoulders,
The soft curve of your winding head.
No melody is sweeter, nor could Orpheus
So have bewitched. I think of this,
And all my universe becomes perfection.
But were you in my arms, dear love,
The happiness would take my breath away,
No thought could match that ecstasy,
No song encompasses it, no other world.
If I should think of love,
I’d think of you.”
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I hope you love the poetry and the feelings that you are feeling now. Be romantic with your partners and be happy and the feeling of completeness will be always with you.
Thank you, Have a nice day
I couldn't agree more. Keep on, earth friend. 👽🌎
Also, Wu Wei 🖖🏻
It is not necessary to agree on it my friend. It was my thought on modern lifestyle and business mindsets and the increasing breakups and divorcee. I think your situation or observation is not like me. Thank you for your time. Have a good day!