I think everything matters, but we can choose what to believe and what to ignore. Sure, some were hurtful to hear but we can choose whether to not cry over it or not. Motivations and inspirations can be of different form. Once a person knows it's true value, it would be impossible to break its will and courage.
Of course these are what I wanted to say positively. On the other hand, I think also that it's okay to remember the pain or the experience for it could be a stronghold and a way to be braver.
You have my thanks for giving your insights. ^^
Many people are bad, and say (or even do) bad things out of enviousness, ignorance, hatred, or simply "bad faith". And for God knows what. If you are different from the masses, they try to exclude you.
These things do not matter to me.
I received a lot of hatred in my childhood, and sometimes I still receive hatred, but I still do not hate them. These people have problems with themselves and with their own life, but not with me. In my childhood, I felt offended for the hatred, but nowadays I simply ignore it.
I can't say that you are wrong about what you said because it is your own opinion and it is what you believe. I'd like to think also that none of us is wrong, we all just need to find the right actions for the right times - right answers for the right questions.
It is indeed occuring in so many ways, and I think that is also a way to hep us navigate and find the people right for us. It's like... it's okay if they don't like you, you don't have to like them too. It sounds a bit rude or improper but that's how I want to put it.
While it's true to my words, I hope that others can find a better way to deal with these matters.