Too damn right, mate. Each person should live their own lives, and so long as its been done in good spirits, there should never be a reason to feel judged. I'm learned to avoid engaging in these debates, since I know that I'll likely never win, given how intensely dug-in the other person is. I'm glad that you've chosen the, "not giving a flying fuck" approach... You do you, mate!
Design and create your ideal life, don't live it by default. 😄
I drew the line when someone said to me...Guns are for moron's. You can't discourse with a person who says things like that. Since then I don't engage. I'm happy to listen to a person's point of view, but they don't get the argument they're looking for and so end up slinking away unrewarded, and uninformed.