Every person should value life as a gift while perceiving experiences through their own eyes rather than those of others. We acquire better comprehension by observing situations ourselves.
Observing events from other perspectives does not provide a complete understanding of things.
Knowing life through personal experiences brings about a profound comprehension of it. We should carry out activities for ourselves rather than acting for others' sake.
Each individual possesses value and authority when it comes to their life happiness and options. Our life and importance belong to us along with our individual choices.
The decision to put others first leads to significant changes in our personal happiness state. Follow our personal path rather than others' paths and we will remain true to ourselves. Our happiness should always be the basis of decisions we make in life.
Although I have gained valuable lessons from all my life experiences. People who aim to be happy find it difficult to accept others when they put themselves first. Such people form constant judgments about others which intensifies their prioritization of their own happiness. We start to find dissatisfaction with others even when we observe their happy moments.
Given the situation it is best to make our personal happiness the priority.