I usually see players go to the PVP zone with clans just to wage fratricidal wars. It is wonderful to see that you like to do the Quests, although it is true that you can't always win because the challenges, quests and adventure have a high level of complexity sometimes. I used to fulfill the ones related to my bow. My archery level was very high and it helped me to destroy monsters in the Quests that used to be in the dungeons. I haven't played OLD for a long time. I think something might have changed.
How cool all the progress you made in the game. You don't always win, but you still learn. It was a pleasure to read you!
I stay far away from PvP areas when I can.