your feelings are quite right. gaming is for enjoyment. you should be playing what you enjoy. while there are many kinds of mmorpgs, they tend to share certain qualities. but if you do not like them as a type of game, then it is ok to play other kinds of games!
i usually ind grinding as the very tedious part of mmos. but what i have found is that grindg in an mmo has become a sort of life-lesson, or a therapeutic way to spend some tme: reflecting on what you are doing, why you are doing it.
I did find an mmo where i found the "monoton" of grinding sort of worthwhile. I find as long as the mmo has really solid RvR open pvp at the end, then it is a suitable reward for me. Champions of Regnum is such an mmo, and best of all for the espanol community here, Regnum is probably the number one spanish RvR open pvp. The majority of players all speak spanish. Anyway, why I like Regnum is because of the fun RvR open pvp. This kind of game does not suit everyone. But it suits me, so i find the grind worthwhile.
Exactly, we have to play what we really enjoy, I'm sure that at some point I will come across some MMORPG that I like, thank you very much for your comment, I didn't know that game you mention.