Hello hiver’s family, I'm newbie here,Good day everyone. It’s me Bernadeth Zaballero, you can called me Bern, Deth or Badeth for short. I’m 34 yrs. old, living in a peaceful province found in Mindanao, it’s a small island called MYSTICAL ISLAND PROVINCE OF LOVE Dinagat Island. I’m the second of four siblings; we lived in a simple life. My mother and father sold various goods to support us siblings. Despite the hardships, we all graduated from college,with the help also of my loving aunt.
I graduated in Bachelor in Science in Hotel and Restaurant Management last 2012. But sadly to say after I graduated I got pregnant I did get even a change to work, I become a full time mama until now. When I saw many woman in my age or younger than me who’s successful in their life I’m so jealous that they can do whatever they want, they can buy anything without worrying or budgeting their money. I’m so disappointed to myself because I only put myself first. I didn't even appreciate the sacrifice of the people who educated me. I’m feeling useless, I should be the one who give the needs of my parents right now but sometimes they are the one who give when we have nothing. I’m blessed to have a parent that always here for us.
I hoping soon I am the one who give everything for them, not to pay but to feel them that I appreciated and i love them so much. And I do my best to make this all possible.
But this is the life I choose for more than 12 years, and now I want to change it for the better of my family. I did not regret for being a mother because this is what God’s plan, my children are the best treasured I have. Being a full time mom is a hard, facing this hardships lack of financial budget. There are times that I want to end my life,I wish to vanish in this world, I feel like I haven't done anything right in this world, it's just full of problems. But my mom always reminds me that no matter what trials in life throws at you, you can overcome them as long as you believe in the higher power, surrender your problems to Him, because giving up is not a solution. I have children whom I need to pay attention to and value. So no matter what trials and hardships I face in life right now, I need to be strong for the family I created. Im lucky to have this a ability in cooking and baking its help us a lot during financial budget strick,especially now the wage of my husband is not enough for us, sometimes the salary is delayed for almost two months. What I did is I sell different kind of viands, frozen food, crop plants like banana, sweet potatoes, sweet corn, cassava, cooked snacks like grilled banana, camoteque, hotcake (pancake) and I try also selling ukay ukay (secondhand cloth) and more just to meet our daily needs. It's stressful to think about what you should do the next day. I have 5 beautiful children,3 of them are studying in elementary level,my 4th children is now a pre-schooler, their need for everyday is additional to think off. But I’m so blessed my family and my husband family is there for us to help us in difficult time. I know God is with us always. Our sacrifice will be paid off one day.
My husband is a mechanical engineer currently working as a casual worker in Department of Agrarian Reform as Auto Cad operator. Recently he is part of Split Project of DAR as a Processor. Way back my husband is an ex oversea worker, working in Saudi last 2013 until May 2016.He decided to pursue his dream to became a mechanical engineer. I’m so blessed to have a husband that no bad habit. He is responsible father and husband to us.
Lastly, Im so thankful that asianhive community created,thank you ms.antonette for on boarding me in this platform at first when I saw a post of Miss @antonette in other social media account I fell oh, another source of income, by posting an English article you will earn. So I grab the opportunity to be trained by a tenure blogger in this platform. Even I’m not good at writing especially English. But when I started to learn more about this community, read some article, the rules ,reading some comments it’s not about earning but it’s about how you express your feelings and show who really you are; without judging by the people surround you. This community accepts who really you are. I’m so happy that God give way to lead me here in this kind of platform that surrounded by full of kind hearted people. Thank you for having me here.Expect me to post more quality content,and engaged more.. Hoping more people know this kind of blogging platform. Happy to express my feelings and disappointment of myself here, God bless us all. Have a wonderful day.That's all for today's blog,happy to share more.Happy reading everyone, welcome to my blog.
Note: some picture is edit by Canva.
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thank you so much@jamerussell, i will remember your suggestion.thank you for a warm welcome.i know i will find a home here because all the people in this community is loving and friendly.
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Thank you very much for welcoming me here, I will try my best to do well here in the Hive, I really appreciate all of you. Take care, teach. God bless.
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Hello, welcome to Hive! Enjoy your stay and create wonderful stories about you and your place. Thank you.
thank you so much for welcoming me @luthis26 ,I'm so happy that many of you accept me here. I well do better creating wonderful stories of me and my place soon.
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@charmingcherry thank you so much for welcoming me here in Hive,thank you also for reblogged my post,so much appreciated.I can't contain my happiness as a newcomer on this platform because there are those who trusted and accepted me.😍
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@jmehta thank you for a warm welcome,i really appreciated.i hope everything will be ok.take care always and God Bless.
Thank you @jmeht for accepting me into this community. I hope to meet many new and genuine friends here. Thank you for reading my intro post.
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STOPwow! thank you @hivebuzz for this achievement.i really appreciated.I will work even harder to reach 50 comments. I will do my best to excel here.
Welcome to the best web3 network ever, Bern. Have fun around here!
Oh,thank you @godfish I'm so happy because I didn't expect that many hiver's family welcome me like this. I can't contain my happiness. I will be even more motivated to share the happenings in my life.
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Greetings from Spain. 🤗Hello! Welcome to Hive, @badeth34 I found you thanks to @heyhaveyamet 's introduction post.
thank you so much @palomap3 for welcoming me here,I'm so blessed to be part of this wonderful place/community,I fell I'm belong to this family. I can't contain my happiness right now.I'm also thankful to those hive's family who reblog my intro post. thank you so much@heyhaveyamet if it weren't for you,@palomaps wouldn't have read my intro post.
It’s my pleasure! 😇
welcome to hive , looking forward to your journey here on hive , enjoy and keep learning and growing to this community that full of kindness , have a nice day ahead !
thank you so much @shydel, I'm also looking forward to myself that i will enjoyed, learned and grow more in this community.thank you for welcoming me here in hive.Have a nice day,God bless.
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@asean.hive Thank you so much, I didn't expect you would reblog my intro post and even upvote it. I'm so happy. It's an honor for me. And I'm extremely grateful to everyone who upvoted my post and reblog it.I'm so flattered,I can't contain my happiness,you noticed my intro blog post.. Thank you so much. I will follow the ASIAN HIVE COMMUNITY VOTING TRAIL,Im done subscribing, i will remember the deligation links.thank you.
Welcome to Hive! Life is full of challenges. Just keep moving forward and have faith the great things are ahead. ☺️
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You can share about your family on Family & Friends Community, or also share your daily activities on Daily Blog Community.Hello, @badeth34! Welcome to Hive Blockchain! There is nothing to regret, and whatever you have now is a blessing to be grateful for.
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Have a great day OCD team.@anggreklestari, thank you so much OCD team for the warm welcome, I am forever grateful and to be part of this platform is a blessing too.thank you for the tips and information as a hives newbies. i will give time to read the newbies guide.
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