Hello my beautiful friends here in hive. How are you today? We arebin vacation at home and thevdeath of my mother-in-law made us busy. We went to the vigil every night and sleep in the day time.
Well, I want to share with you when one of our graduates decided to get marriage and build a family as it was arranged by both parent of the bride and groom. This is normal in the community of indegenious people. But what the parent didn't know, they became a lover in school. So it was easy for them to accept their status.
There are so many successful students who are now working in the city but this couple prepared to be a partner. They are now happily living together with their children.
It happened last 2015 and their wedding was special. They were proud how their wedding was not like the old traditional wedding.
I asked them both if they love each other or they decided because of forced wedding or arrangements made by parent! Then, they said they love each other and willing to obey their parent's will.
They had a special wedding not a traditional wedding mostly made by the tribes. Some missionaries from different countries taught them the new system and also we educated them. It was up to them to place themselves in a certain situation.
They had perfect bridal entourage which was not experience by the tribe mostly on their wedding day. They adopted the modern world and it made their wedding special. They have money and their family have a big farmland and cattle. So they afford to spent for their wedding.
As of now, they lived a happy life with children and last few months ago , I talked to them and told me that they live a happy life in a simple way of living in the farm. There is no regret of getting married too young because her husband is a hard working man, her parent choose for her. They were celebrating their 9th years anniversary and they have children studying in the elementary grade in our school. They are good educated parent to their children adopting the modern way of living but living in the same place where their parent raised them up since birth.
That's all story for today and they are just one of those couple who became my students and got married in their early stage of their life.
This is one of my random post for today. Thank you #hiveph, #philippines, @asean.hive, and everyone!
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Ehhh, arranged marriage, well if they love each other then there's nothing wrong with it. I am actually not in favor with arranged marriage especially if it was force. But at least this one is not. And its good to know that they are livinf a happy life now.
Yes, they were classmate and it was a coincidence that their parent arranged their married. They were just following the will of their parents.
Beautiful love story. What’s disturbing story is when two people don’t have feelings with each other and they still marry because it is arranged. My parents didn’t love one another because they were arranged, but they created four children including me. But our lives as a family was full of fighting that gave us a trauma when we were kids. However, I’m very grateful for our mom who is very martyr that she didn’t give up on us for the sake of having a complete family, not dysfunctional. It’s very important to have love because the children are very much affected if parents don’t love with each other.
My parent had a different story, they were 15 and 18 loving each other until they parted away after celebrating their golden wedding anniversary
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