Hi!! My name is Eden Arroylo but some of them call me Teacher Eden.I am a newbie in this platform and I want to share the entire story of my life here.I hope that you will read the whole story from the beginning up to the end. I hope that you will learn some lessons after reading this story.
This is my family, I am a mother of three kids with my loving husband. Before I got into this I want to share to you how I came to this. Back year 2008,I was in grade 5 that time, I woke up in the morning that my father and mother broke up because my mother left us without knowing the reasons why she leaved us. That time, the least I can do is to cry and cry to lessen the hurt that I am feeling. I saw my father always crying and always going somewhere just to find my mother, but after a few months we know that my mother is with another guy 😥.That time I don't know what to do or what to say but seeing my father, I know that he feel hurt than me. I have my 6 years younger brother that time and I am still 11 years old. Were so young to handle problems like this. I did not moved on easily, I really hate my mother and I can't blame my self for feeling that way. When our teacher say we will have a school meetings I felt sad and jealous of my classmates because they have their mother attending the meeting. My father always drinking alcohol to ease the pain that's why he don't have time for us and our grand parents have to look for us. Until I graduated elementary and highschool. I am a serious type person, there's a lot of question in my mind, a lot of jealousy specially when I saw a happy family. My father married another woman and I really hate that because that woman also have two children. And I can feel it in my heart that her children are most cared than me and my brother. In my highschool days, I met a lot of boys and some of them became my lover at my young age. I want to enjoy my life just to forget the pain I am having inside. I've been a lot of difficulties in life untill I met my husband. I met this man when I was fifteen and he was 20. He came to a broken family because his father died when he was two years old. We decided to live together after one year of our relationship. My father was so angry but he can't break us. Untill I became pregnant and now we have three kids, we live without the help of both of our parents. We don't belong to a rich family, we are poor yet I am happy with my family. Going forward year 2024,our Brgy captain told me and hired me to be a Child Development Worker in our Brgy. I accept the offer even if it has a low salary just to help my husband for our family needs. My youngest child is 2 years old that time, but I have to accept the job. When I went to school I will carry my baby because my husband is in the farm because he is a gardener/farmer and there's no one to help me. Everywhere I go, my baby is with me because my two children go to their school too.
Now I am happy teaching this kids, it's not easy dealing with them but I have my strong inspiration and it's my family.
There are different types of a child's behavior but I have to handle it right. Sometimes they feel bad, they feel sad but I have to comfort them, to cheer them up. And the thing is I love children, I am happy being with them.
Sometimes I get tired specially when I have a serious problem in our house, I want to quit this job and go to another country to find a job but I always think of my family, my children. I promise not to leave them.
And upon seeing this faces, I know that they are happy and it makes me happy more than what they feel.
I am not a traveller but because of my work I came in this place at Baliangao beach, it's only here in the Philippines. This place is a nice place to unwind and to relax.
With co-workers, I am so happy and grateful having them as my team because they accept me and trey me as one of their family.
I really don't have any idea about this online platform untill one of my ESL friend told me to join and took the opportunity to share my story onboarded by ma'am @antonette . Thankyou so much for onboarding and guiding me in this platform. I make sure that I will go far with this platform with your guidance. This will be a good start of this year and a good help to our family. This recommendations means a lot to me and I will make the most of it. Thankyou so much ma'am.
Thank you so much for giving time to read my introductory blog. I hope to see you in my next blog. I have a lot to share. See you!!!
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