Some losses can be very educating. In fact, sometimes, loss is necessary to get one to realize certain facts of life or business.
But sometimes, loss can be completely pointless, useless and avoidable.
Whether it is losing a business deal because you were not prepared , or loosing money on crypto because there was no plan to begin with, or losing a friend because you were strong headed... You get to learn from them and move on...
But loosing 10yrs of your life in a relationship because you are afraid of breaking a guy's heart is pointless and I am not sure there's anything to be learnt in it.
I may be wrong though.
Thanks for sharing.
Some losses can be pointless and there are no lessons to learn. I agree with this. This is why I think I barely learned anything from the loss I incurred. I could have been wiser, but I wasn't. So I cannot gain anything but perhaps someone else can get a better advice because of what I went through.
A relationship failed is a wasted time, I don't always agree with the concept of "I learned"
We mostly package wasted time with the idea that we learned something
Classic defensive thinking.