Have you ever been in a situation where your mind is holding you back from doing something? You might feel scared due to scenarios you've imagined in your head. However, once you finally try it, you realize that you’ve been creating problems for yourself because what you were thinking about wasn't that difficult. I have experienced this situation multiple times, and I can tell you that one of the biggest challenges in life is our mind. It plays a crucial role in everything we do, and often, the thoughts we have are not based on reality.
Reality is very different from imagination. We often think we've figured things out and create scenarios that lead us to believe nothing could go wrong. However, when reality hits, we realize that many things can, indeed, go wrong. This is why I don’t blame people for not doing something right; they likely envisioned it differently and thought it would be easier. Many things appear simple on paper, but once you attempt them, you discover they can be quite challenging. Some tasks seem very difficult at first glance, but when you try them, you might find they are easy. This contrast is why many people hesitate to follow their dreams, waiting instead for a perfect scenario to occur in their minds.
It’s not as hard as it seems
The main reason why people wait for a perfect time is because they are waiting for things to meet the conditions that they have programmed in their heads. Most people have program scenarios and events in their mind, and they are waiting for seniors to meet everything that they have programmed, but the truth is everything we imagine in our head most times is always completely different from our reality when it happens to us. We don’t always get a hundred percent of events or scenarios right, we might get close to 50 to 60% but it is not always as we imagined it.
I don’t believe there is any superpower anywhere that can make you predict the future. Most people know this but they don’t learn from the experience, people give themselves reasons not to do something. I’ve been in a situation whereby the more things work according to my imagination, I create another event just to stop myself from doing what I should do. The reality is that instead of us thinking too much and creating events in our heads why don’t we just do it?
Just do it
Indeed, nobody can predict the future accurately so why are we disturbing ourselves and looking for a perfect event? Instead of thinking too much and giving ourselves excuses not to do anything, Why don’t we just do that thing We want to do without looking back because it can only go right or wrong? While we are waiting for a perfect scenario some people are already using the same idea somewhere and they are living a better life. This doesn’t mean that it will work for you but with actions, there is every possibility that you are going to get it right.
Instead of staying in our heads by trying to be too smart and creating scenarios and events, It is always better We take action and do that thing that we want to do because life gets easier when we start taking action and that is where we can see a good result, even when the things we are doing is not working as planned, we can always adjust and make it better but when we are not doing anything how are we going to learn and get better.
Thank for your time.
We hold ourselves back from doing what is expected of us and the next thing is to seek for an excuse to justify our actions. Just do it! That is when we can feel fulfilled with no regrets in the end.
It's amazing how our minds can create worst-case scenarios that never actually happen. Fear is so powerful.... Thanks for the reminder that we shouldn't let imagined obstacles stop us from moving forward
@tipu curate