¿Es esta la vida que queremos tener?
Muchas veces me realizo esta pregunta al día (sobre todo cuando tengo esos debates conmigo mismo), me he dado cuenta que mientras más crezco más pienso y más me discuto mi realidad diaria; ¿Quiero seguir estando acá?, ¿Deseo seguir haciendo esto?, ¿Es normal conformarme con esto?, etc. Por supuesto casi nunca le encuentro una respuesta concreta y lógica a todas mis interrogantes por eso he decidido expresar todas mis incógnitas, respuestas (desde mi perspectiva) y sobre todo posturas que quizás no comparto en voz alta porque pueden ser muy radicales, espero encontrar en esta peculiar plataforma un espacio de libertad, recreación y empoderamiento mental.
¡Hola amig@ incomprendido! Mi nombre es Adolfo Peña, tengo 24 años y soy de Venezuela, si, sé que el párrafo de arriba fue un poco denso, pero ¿No es la vida densa?, en fin, mi vida ha sido siempre un sube y baja de emociones, muchas veces he estado extasiado de felicidad, alegría y euphoria, pero también he estado en esas situaciones que me sobrepasan y me convierto en un ente lleno de tristeza, melancolía, odia, enojo y pesimismo. He llegado a la conclusión que “sentir” es complicado y mucho más complicado es gestionar todo eso que sientes.
Al cumplir 11 años aproximadamente sufrí lo que me gusta llamar una “Separación Familiar”; esto quiere decir que mi núcleo familiar se separó y hasta la fecha no se hablan y dicen ellos que se “odian” aunque en el fondo solo se tiene rencor y están tristes porque se sintieron lastimados), mi madre y yo nos mudamos a otro estado del país, cambio que me hizo crecer más rápido ya que solo éramos mi madre y yo. Me encontré en un nuevo lugar, un nuevo instituto educativo y un nuevo entorno social y solo tenía: 10 años, no fue difícil adaptarme ya que siempre he tenido buenas habilidades sociales o simplemente era muy confianzudo y hacia “amigos” rápido.
Al cumplir los 18 decidí mudarme a la capital, pensaba en estudiar, trabajar y vivir solo (todo al mismo tiempo) solo que no contaba con que la situación de mi país sería tan pero tan difícil, así que hice solo lo que podía hacer; comencé a estudiar Psicología y posteriormente a trabajar para poder sobrevivir, me alejé del ala cómoda y cálida de mi familia y decidí vivir alquilado y solo, eventualmente terminé pausando mis estudios debido a que tenía que buscar un ingreso mejor para vivir. Por el pasar de los años fui teniendo experiencias que luego se convertirían en anécdotas interesantes, tontas y hasta increíbles.
Quiero que ustedes me conozcan y creen un criterio propio de mí, no quiero presentarme dándoles a ustedes mis propios atributos buenos o malos, espero ustedes los identifiquen y puedan señalarlos y etiquetarlos.
Actualmente vivo con mi hermano, mi tía y mi mejor amiga/cuñada en un apartamento en la capital, quería profundizar y hablarles de ellos un poco, pero prefiero dejarlo para otros posts y así los conozcan por separado.
Conocí Peakd por mi mejor amiga (@mariblue) y por mi hermano (@vercejoalma) los cuales también comparten pensamientos, reflexiones y gustos por acá, pretendo compartir con ustedes todos mis pensamientos, sentimientos, incógnitas y hasta puntos de vistas y solo pido de ustedes una sola cosa: si tiene algo que opinar, hágalo. Suelo ser un poco susceptible a las opiniones de los demás y más si no se acoplan a las mías, pero trabajare en eso y lograr tener más tolerancia.
“¿Deseas ser un espectador o un participante?”
Is this the life we want to have?
Many times I ask myself this question every day (especially when I have these debates with myself), I have realized that the more I grow the more I think and discuss my daily reality; Do I want to continue being here, Do I want to continue doing this, Is it normal to be satisfied with this, etc.? Of course I almost never find a concrete and logical answer to all my questions so I have decided to express all my questions, answers (from my perspective) and especially positions that perhaps I do not share out loud because they can be very radical, I hope to find in this peculiar platform a space of freedom, recreation and mental empowerment.
Hello misunderstood friend! My name is Adolfo Peña, I am 24 years old and I am from Venezuela, yes, I know that the paragraph above was a little dense, but isn't life dense, well, my life has always been a seesaw of emotions, many times I have been ecstatic with happiness, joy and euphoria, but I have also been in those situations that overwhelm me and I become an entity full of sadness, melancholy, hate, anger and pessimism. I have come to the conclusion that "feeling" is complicated and much more complicated is to manage all that you feel.
When I turned 11 years old approximately I suffered what I like to call a "Family Separation"; this means that my family nucleus separated and to this day they do not talk to each other and they say they "hate" each other although deep down they only have resentment and are sad because they felt hurt), my mother and I moved to another state of the country, a change that made me grow up faster since it was only my mother and me. I found myself in a new place, a new educational institute and a new social environment and I was only: 10 years old, it was not difficult to adapt since I have always had good social skills or I was just very trusting and made "friends" fast.
When I turned 18 I decided to move to the capital, I thought about studying, working and living alone (all at the same time) but I didn't count that the situation in my country would be so difficult, so I did only what I could do; I started to study Psychology and later to work to survive, I moved away from the comfortable and warm wing of my family and decided to live rented and alone, eventually I ended up pausing my studies because I had to look for a better income to live. As the years went by I had experiences that would later become interesting, silly and even unbelievable anecdotes.
I want you to get to know me and create your own criteria of me, I don't want to introduce myself by giving you my own good or bad attributes, I hope you identify them and can point them out and label them.
I currently live with my brother, my aunt and my best friend/sister-in-law in an apartment in the capital, I wanted to go deeper and tell you about them a little bit, but I prefer to leave it for other posts so you can get to know them separately.
I met Peakd through my best friend (@mariblue) and my brother (@vercejoalma) who also share their thoughts, reflections and tastes here, I intend to share with you all my thoughts, feelings, unknowns and even points of view and I only ask from you one thing: if you have something to say, do it. I tend to be a little sensitive to the opinions of others and more if they do not fit mine, but I will work on that and achieve more tolerance.
“Do you want to be a spectator or a participant?”
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Hola @altopiensa, un placer tener por acá en esta increíble plataforma. Me llena al saber que te unirás a la experiencia que por acá se comparte y esperemos sea de tu agrado par que compartas todo lo que uno puede reflexionar y sentir. Esperando tus próximos post 🙏🏻
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One of the most interesting ideas I have heard is that an education is not a collection of disconnected facts, but a tool set to help you build the life you want to live. Perhaps that meshes with your final question. If you are more spectator than participant, what is lacking in your education?
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