Which would you choose if you were given a choice between being perfect or being happy?
It depends on your point of view about happiness.
Some people have everything perfect for them then they feel happy.
But we all know that feeling like everything is perfect is just a path to temporary happiness and disappointment.
Happiness Brings Perfection
Imperfection always brings a unique harmony to life. It brings a lot of experience to us.
From our imperfections, we learn a lot and accept life as it is.
By feeling happy and fully aware that we can be happy in a simple way, it will make everything perfect.
In other human relationships, we will also more easily complement each other if our first goal is complementary happiness, we are not looking for perfection.
Focus On The Good Things
Many negative things make us always insecure and complain.
Instead of being depressed by many negative things in your life, focusing on good things will improve the quality of happiness in your life. That's because you will create gratitude when you look at the good side not the bad.
Brave To Let Go
Sometimes we humans like to increase our hopes, even for something that is clearly no longer for us.
We don't need to feel guilty if what we hope for later can't be ours. It's not our fault because we've struggled.
Choosing to hold on to hope will only block light from coming to our future.
There are times when we hope, and there are times for us to let go.
Because we deserve to be happy, even though we are not perfect. Because you are valuable, even though there are people who always think you are worthless. You deserve to be happy even though many people hurt you.
If you can't have something, at least you can still have yourself. Don't let yourself be unhappy because you are busy thinking about other people who can't make you happy.
Love yourself. ❤️
So hard this fight my soul always want to be perfect but I know that my search of perfection don't make me happy, I always want to be richer, smarter, skinnier etc...